Welcome to

The BLUME Club.

The Blume Club is a space for all the Goddesses, witches, and badass bitches looking for a more spiritual touch on inner growth and self-healing. If that sounds like something you’d love on your timeline and in your inbox then read on. If not, it’s okay I get it were all on different paths and yours might not include getting in touch with the spiritual side of things at this time in your healing journey, come back when you feel called to do so 😊

I’ve flipped from topic to topic when it comes to this business, should I do hair products? should I make skincare? I love skincare… Why isn’t this working? Do I make loungewear? How can I make mine different? Ugh, no I can’t do that everyone is doing that. How can I impact the lives of women and men everywhere uniquely?

Then it hit me,

Words. Raw emotion. & Spirit

Ever since I was young, I had a passion for writing little stories that would make people FEEL. Even the essays and cards I’d write for people would have some sort of impact. I always felt like I had something to say, and writing was the “easy way out” since there was no room for mistakes and most computers could fix all your errors for you. Unlike talking whereas sometimes I would mesh words together or see letters opposite. Saying how I felt on paper was simple, clean, and could be understood.

It took me 27 years to realize that. The reason my communication seemed to be more poor or quiet, less open in person was that I was Scared of what others would think of my opinions and how I would pronounce certain words. Now I’m starting to care less, saying my truth no matter what. Because if you don’t stand up for yourself, who will?

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“I STARTED BLUME BACK IN SEPT. 2021 I ALWAYS FELT BEHIND EVERYONE ELSE, A WALLFLOWER, A LATE BLUMER an antisocial butterfly. SO, I WANTED TO CREATE A SPACE WHERE LIKE-MINDED PEOPLE CAME TOGETHER AND SUPPORTED ONE ANOTHER. I WANTED TO MAKE A MARK SOMEHOW.

To be the influence I needed when I was a young teen, trying to figure it all out, not speaking up for myself when I should have, and wanting to grow up so badly.

Looking back, I should have enjoyed being a teenager. By going out more and taking more risks. But I stayed safe and let the influence of my family hold me back from certain opportunities. Then I moved out, about two years ago to be exact., to a different city for the first time. My parents divorced, people left my life, and then people came back into my life. I left a mentally abusive workplace. I spiraled.

ABOUT A WEEK. after I had started The Blume Club my anxiety and depression were getting worse, GETTING UP AND GOING TO WORK, MAKING DINNER? SMALL TASKS I COULD EVEN FATHOM. HOW IN THE WORLD WAS I TO START A BUSINESS?? I THREW IN THE TOWEL, SAID FUCK IT, AND SAT IN MY DEPRESSION FOR MONTHS. IT RUINED ME BOTH EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY.

THE THING ABOUT LIFE IS THAT IT’S ALL ABOUT THE CHOICES WE MAKE. LIFE SETS UP TWO PATHS FOR US AND IT’S UP TO US WHICH ONE WE DECIDE TO TAKE. I TOOK THE EASY WAY OUT.

IT TOOK OVER.

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IT WASN’T UNTIL NOW THAT I STARTED TO SEE THE SURFACE. THE BEST WAY TO DESCRIBE IT IS LOOKING UP FROM THE OCEAN FLOOR TO SEE THE SUNLIGHT PEEKING THROUGH THE WATER. I COULD NOW SEE THE SUNLIGHT. (I recommend watching either the little mermaid or finding Nemo, both show accurate representations of what I’m talking about).

I TOOK ON YOGA, CHANGED MY WORK SCHEDULE, AND STARTED BEING MORE HONEST WITH OTHERS AND MYSELF ABOUT MY MENTAL HEALTH AND WHAT STEPS I COULD TAKE TO BE MORE PRESENT IN MY EVERYDAY LIFE. (And to stop focusing on the future and what-ifs).

I’M TAKING OVER.

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I decided it was time to humiliate myself. To create a brand and a space that represents the wall flowers in the back the caterpillars waiting to become butterflies. Because to grow, you have to step outside of that comfort zone.

This Space is going to focus on healing from the inside out and being more present while doing so. Ever since the 2019 “Covid Era” I’ve felt a shift in the way life moves and much like Ferris Buller said, “ Life moves pretty fast if you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you might miss it.” I feel like it’s moving fast and I’m missing it.

“It’s time to slow down and focus on changing one thing at a time,” I told myself after a very long deep, and emotional conversation with my partner of four years.

The conversation around Yoga, spirit guides, angel numbers, crystals, & Food are all on the table. Alongside how to focus on the preset, expand your mindset, and be more of your alone self around others.

ONE OF THE BIGGEST LIFE LESSONS I’VE LEARNED IS THAT, WHILE PEOPLE AND SHITTY SITUATIONS CAN ADD TO YOUR STRESS AT THE END OF THE DAY IT IS UP TO US ON WHETHER WE ACT OR REACT TO THOSE SHITTY PEOPLE AND SITUATIONS PLACED IN FRONT OF US. WE CHOOSE WHO AND WHAT WE LET INTO OUR IIFE.

TAKING OVER YOUR OWN LIFE IS ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS YOU’LL EVER DO.

SOME CALL IT SELFISH I CALL it BECOMING YOUR BEST SELF. I’M STILL ON MY HEALING JOURNEY AND THAT’S OK. WE’RE CONSTANTLY TRYING TO IMPROVE OURSELVES BUT WE HAVE TO REMEMBER TO APPRECIATE THE TRIALS OF GETTING THERE BECAUSE …

YOU’RE A BLUMMING IN PROGRESS.

Let’s Embrace growth together.

Namaste

🫶🏽🔮💫🤍🦋

Dayna-Marie

The Blume Club

EST. 2022

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